When you want to take control of your life, you must make your own choices. Those who take control are willing to own their choices. They know that each time they take control of their choices, they will learn something new whether it is good or bad. When you don’t take control of your life, you push your choices onto others and then blame them for the outcome when it is bad. If, however, the outcome is good, they are the ones that are quick to take all the credit for a good decision.

What happens when you take control?
I have another friend that has gone through a lot of hardships. He has lost his job multiple times due to layoffs, been rejected in relationships, and not been able to find a good job that met his qualifications. He has even struggled to make ends meet. Overall, he has many reasons to complain. He could blame his situation on everyone else for their behavior and what they have done to him, but he has a different approach. He is always positive and regularly looks inward to figure out what he needs to do differently. He constantly seeks opportunities to do more and be better. He has the attitude that he will not let himself settle for what he thinks he can earn by taking control of his life. With this attitude, he is gradually finding success, but it has come as a result of his hard work and dedication. He has taken control of his life.
What happens when you don’t take control?
I have a friend that is a chronic complainer. He has been blessed with many material possessions compared to most, but every chance he gets he complains about someone or something. “That person isn’t nice enough.” “I am underprivileged because I don’t have the nicest new thing.” “It’s not fair that I ONLY have this and everyone else has that, especially with the amount of work I put in. It’s not fair!” “It’s not my fault that this is happening to me, it is the boss’s fault.” “I would be more successful if that person didn’t put that road block in my way.” The list of his comments and negativity goes on and on. He never takes any of the blame for his situation because it is always the fault of something or someone else. He did not take control of his life because he has given his control to others. [Read more…] about Take Control Of Your Life




